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Campus  |  2021-3-16 17:42 0230

2021-03-16 05:14 - 2021-3-16 05:14Has ended
Dear Parents,




HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING OF CHILDREN




Please, carefully look at the list below and identify where you may want to make amends on yourself or on the young ones you are bringing up.




Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if both parents are at the top of their careers.

Manners take you to where your education can't irrespective of your status, wealth or your reach or influence:




1) Going to your child's school indecently

     dressed. (Think again).




2) Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.




3) Cursing, using foul language or swearing  

     words in front of your children.




4) Using makeup on children.




5) Dressing your little children up indecently

    (they lose their sense of Princesshood).




6) Putting earrings on your son's ears.




7) Your child hold the cup or glassware by the

     brim and you don't correct.




8) Your children don't greet and you just feel

     they will come around one day because they

     have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for

     it)




9) Your children eat with their mouth opened

     and you feel they will grow up some day.




10) Your children bringing home something

       you did not buy for them and you say

       nothing. (that is the beginning of stealing).




11) The Children talk back at you and you

       conclude it's okay since you are a 21st

       century Mummy. (You will hate yourself if

       they do that outside and they are

       disciplined).




12) The Children interrupt when you are

       speaking with another adult and you think

       they are bold and clever. (Its really bad

       manners).




13) The Children exercising authority over the

       Nanny and domestic staff and you let them

       be. (that is bad parenting).




14) The Children saying things like "my driver

       is on his way..." I do not advocate that

       children should call your domestic staff

       Aunty or Brother, calling them by Name

       when they are not young people is not

       proper either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs

       will look good on them.




15) Your children don't say a 'thank you' when

       they have been helped or served

       something and you are cool with that. (Bad

       parenting).




16) When your Children cannot stand children's

       who are less privileged.




18) When the Children pick their noses with

       their hands.




19) When the Children don't wash their hands

       after visiting the washroom or after

       returning from school or outside visits.




20) When your Children take something from

       the fridge without taking permission. (Bad

       parenting).




21) When your Children don't knock on closed

      doors and wait for a response before

      opening the door.




22) When your Children don't collect from your

       hands items you brought in as you walk

       into your home.




23) When your Children request for a bribe to

       carry out their home chores or extra task.

       (That is disgraceful).




24) When your Children act like their

       Grandparents irritate them. (It's a

       Transferable Curse).




25) When your Children have not learnt to get

       up from the Chair for the Elderly or Visitors

       to sit.




26) When your Children tells lot of Lies. (You

       will both cry in the future).




27) When your Children ask "who is that?" at a

       knock on your door instead of "please, may

       I know who is there."




28) When your Children are always seated by

       your Visitors when being served Drinks or

       Food.




29) When your Children still point their fingers

       at other people, when talking to or

       speaking about them.




30) When your Children play and jump around

       when Prayers are going on. (These can

       apply to Children from Ages 4 and Above).




Don't be a 21st Century Parents who can't correct their Children. Train your Children in the way of the Lord so that when they grow up they will not depart from such Godly Training or Upbringing.




IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS







Good night
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